Affectionate drunk reddit Neither of my parents were raised in verbally or physically affectionate families and then that was how my sibs and I were raised. Recently, a friend told me that a lot of my guy friends are uncomfortable around me when I'm too drunk and overly affectionate. Posted by u/strawberrycakie888 - 1 vote and 10 comments Not really affectionate, but sometimes we get drunk and a lot of “ I love you man” or “i always got your back” goes around 😂😂😂 While playing sports or in the gym that ass slap is common but not an affectionate gesture as it's a "you got this" or "that's the way it's done" type of thing. Another reason why some people are more affectionate when they’re drunk is that alcohol can make us more emotional. When we drink alcohol, it affects our limbic system, which is What’s going on in this guy’s head that he’s only being super caring and affectionate when he’s drunk? 1. Follow. So does drunk flirting show true intentions? Let’s find out. She could just be an affectionate drunk and trusts you enough to know you won't take advantage of her, especially because of how you are able to be platonically close normally. I like your thoughts but some things to consider: 1). I am motivated to do many things, and I generally feel happier - compared to when I am not drunk. English subtitles. This was something I wondered before my first time getting drunk. I basically appear like a normal social person. Neville i definitely see as a confident drunk, like normal Neville is still kinda shy and humble, drunk Neville though, that guy is willing to try anything and fully believes that he can crush it, his success rate is surprisingly high too tbh. This is NOT due to being aro however. This is a nsfw, GENTLE (can’t emphasize “gentle” enough) Femdom 20 votes, 32 comments. Idk, but to be loved and affectionate feels unsettling View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. 3/ Her initiating removes the risk of rejection from me 4/ Her initiating stops the hurt and guilt she feels when she has to turn me away. Curious to hear the differences in personalities! Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. 1 Post Karma. I think he was tipsy. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home Open navigation Go to Reddit Home It was an emotional experience bc we didn't know what we were doing. So I just end up really drunk and really sleepy. I sang "Someone like you" by Adele. So, it’s common to start something with my wife at the end of the night. Now on nights she doesn’t drink or during the day on the weekends she comes across very Next day she's still freaked the fuck out and we realized her car wasn't here. We don’t read the rules, but we’ll post anyway Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. When I get drunk I get really affectionate/loving and I was just being really friendly with my friends (both male and female). 7M subscribers in the AskMen community. In my drunken stupor I actually feel that repressed part of me that deeply wants love and connection and friendship. A subreddit for the Netflix animated series Kipo and the Age of Wonderbeasts. I rarely binge drink and always try to make sure I have soft drinks and track how much I’m drinking however last week I’m not sure what happened but I massively misjudged it and got blackout drunk. Anyways I don’t remember a lot, I think we were flirting a bit but I’m a very affectionate drunk and it was all innocent. I think I talk about more darker things when I am drunk. While he's physically affectionate in general, he tends to hide his emotions unless he's drunk. I wasn't like mad at the news but rather happy and just really sad and confused bc I'm an affectionate person, so being told that they didn't feel "romantic vibez" felt like I was being used or taken advantage of. Chat. My M35 new gf F33 is only affectionate when she's drunk . 2/ How my wife touch's me shows me how I can touch her in return. I get a little touchy-feely when I'm drunk, and I know that. That was a crazy, salty night. View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. I know INFP is wrong for sure. 5. Have you ever been in a situation where the only time you receive romantic affection from someone is when they are drunk? What do you think of this? Does it matter? tldr: boyfriend has a hard time being vulnerable, is super loving and affectionate when drunk, but then feels embarrassed about it the next morning. Send a Message. Or check it out in the app stores ask him if he means the things he says when drunk, and tell him to put up or shut up. A single drink, if a decent ABV, gives the warm feeling and not much else. I chalk it up to her being an affectionate drunk and go on with the night. 53K subscribers in the PokeMoonSun community. That's how I knew he was alright. I'm not a mean drunk. I get really cuddly with everyone. 80 votes, 134 comments. Did you hear about the man who butt-dialed 911 while drunk driving? TransPorn, Yes that's right this is the TRANSPORN, a subreddit dedicated to Amateur TRANS who wanna post porn on reddit. Normally I’m the type of person who doesn’t want anyone to touch me or anything while sober. Get yourself some help. Not some random sh*tbut literally: what are you like as a drunk INFJ? I feel like I ask deep questions, one after the other. Or check it out in the app stores people overall are very affectionate with friends. I say “more affectionate” because it’s not abnormal affection; I just give hugs when I drink when normally I don’t want anyone to touch me. Block Account. Not my shoulder as guys do but around my waist. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. Posted by u/Salticido - 20 votes and 80 comments Tldr at the below this: Alright, so last night I spent the night at a friend's apartment along with a few other friends (a total of 6 guys and 188 votes, 39 comments. (As you can tell from this article, it's actually pretty common. But I do still have a filter. People in Reddit all have their own opinions on what behaviors are okay and aren't okay to do in and out of relationships. When she’s sort of drunk, well she’s not as affectionate but she still wants to talk to me. Once got drunk with my sister after a huge fight with an ex bf, spent the entire night sobbing and incoherently babbling like a toddler. I get increasingly affectionate on my friends OR I get extremely existential and distant. Verbal affection is common as well i remember probably the first memory i have is with my dad, him being drunk sometimes and i used to always get mad about it, even tho he was never abusive or aggressive towards me while being drunk. Not like a debby downer, but deep parts of my past and weird questions most people don't think of. I've also been known to make friends by giving people odd compliments about their choice of clothing for the evening e. RWBY: A Rooster Teeth Production (Pronounced Ruby) Also very affectionate, but I'm always in for a hug, I think that when I'm drunk, I can just get away with randomly hugging my friends without being asked why. I’m not physically affectionate with people that aren’t my nieces or nephews. I like to drink occasionally and have been drunk plenty. O. Reddit’s built-in search function is awful, but our 🌈 Magic Search Button works great! The 🌈 Magic Search Button links you to a pre-filled google search and is the optimal way to search this sub. I can, however, maintain perfect grammar, regardless of how drunk I am. Welcome to r/male_vulnerability. But they told me that I was special to them. But I’m putting my arm around him, hugging him, basically invading any person space he had. I don't drink often or much, but when I do, I really enjoy it. 177K subscribers in the RWBY community. Or check it out in the app stores TOPICS. 2. I pee a lot. If this wouldn't have been an impairment in doing work - eg quality of code that I write is average, but I tend to write more code, I would have preferred to perpetually be drunk. 2018 But yesterday I got drunk with some friends and when I sobered up a little bit I felt like I was being too flirty/friendly w/ them. I’ve known Jake for almost as long as Alex as he was a grade above me at a small school. A place for adorable, blushy, cute, fluffy, gentle, giggly, happy, heartfelt, loving, peaceful, safe View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. I'm better at pacing myself, and don't get sloppy. It takes her about 6 beers to do it, but once she's sufficiently drunk, she melts down HARD and turns into an almost excessively sweet, kind, and more importantly affectionate version of herself. I had learned that night, that everyone's a little gay, at some point in their lives. Only reason I ever got that incredibly drunk is because I had a lot a pressure to "be a man" growing up (I'm MTF), so I developed a habit of going way overboard. At first, I only told my gf I loved her when we went out and I drank. my dad is one of them. My emotions will shift throughout the night. Posted by u/pygmypuffonacid - 1 vote and 1 comment Yeah I’m not a fan of being around drunk people. "That is a feisty shirt, sir!" I I thought it only made people more unfiltered versions of themselves. Hmm interesting 🤔 What do you think? When she is drunk she becomes really touchy, she is also touchy sober, but drunk is different, as she is really affectionate. And that’s the reason I no longer drink. We had karaoke and I was drunk enough to sing. And she tells me the most wild story I've ever heard. The Real Housewives of Atlanta; The Bachelor; Sister Wives; 90 Day Fiance; Wife Swap The issue is that once I start drinking I keep trying to chase that initial rush of social butterfly energy by drinking more, but that’s not how it works. Some people when they get drunk get overly affectionate or get a short temper but no it takes a truly Special kind of hungry drunk to eat two full racks of uncooked ribs you leave to Marinate overnight. I'm an affectionate drunk. We communicate well enough that when he gets upset he is able to say why he is upset and his needs are and where I Before his second puberty my boyfriend was big enough to carry me in his arms effortlessly. Report Profile. Blackout Drunk Anxiety Did something incredibly stupid last week. The Armageddon that was unleashed the next Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. My this point I was a little drunk myself. The next day he realizes she is the daughter of the commissioner of the hockey league and also there are tabloid-y photos of him carrying her or whatever, further detailing any Also, one time he was too drunk and too tired to have sex, and he snuggled up to me and said, "I just wanna hold you while I fall asleep. later in the evening, he got quite touchy feely (touching lower legs, arms u/AffectionateWalk6101: A rare moderate independent. I don’t mind his way of showing as long as we have boundaries but he gets upset when I don’t reciprocate. Having sex with said belligerent drunk when you're in a loving and committed relationship and after the fight has generally run its course and an apology has ensued is also pretty normal. But she proceeds to do it again and then eventually comes close to hug me and also rubs my thighs and I push her off and tell her again, I don't want anyone on me. Alex was as well (they were also very drunk at this point. Her husband came home drunk, or she thought he was drunk, and started a fight over the kids thing again. g. Taking care of a belligerent drunk who is yelling at you for no good reason is relatively normal. We can observe other effects of drunkenness in animals, like lack of coordination, but do they experience the same emotional changes we do? Are orange cats The Dragon Prince, created by Aaron Ehasz (Avatar: The Last Airbender) and Justin Richmond, tells the story of two human princes who forge an unlikely bond with the elven assassin sent to kill them, embarking on an epic quest to bring peace to their warring lands. Watch Drinking lowers inhibitions, so you might conclude that a person’s behavior while drunk is an honest expression of their genuine feelings. Affectionate_Cap2789 Share. r/transporn r/transporn. AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts 774 subscribers in the male_vulnerability community. These days, I stick to beer. u/Affectionate-Note636: I am a little old lady of Reddit. My (26f) girlfriend seems to only be affectionate and sexually attracted to me (30m) while intoxicated and yeah usually unless she gets too drunk and passes out is pretty sexual. Capitalism/greed is at the heart of SM engagement algorithms. Members Online. I could actually see Luna being a little more in the moment and less spaced out when drunk. I feel so ashamed of myself, because this really isn't who I am or how I want people to feel around me. When I phoned him at 2am and asked him for help with the dog he was clearly drunk and said that ‘he doesn’t agree to have a son right now’(speaking of the dog)and that ‘I should take the dog that I own and look after him’. I prefer drinking alone at home than at a bar with friends. Now I can barely feel it when he gets drunk and climbs up on me like an affectionate little kitten. I'm 19, female, from Europe and I love drinking. Happy for you and your relationship cuteness <3 Reply reply I feel that I'm a bubbly and affectionate drunk because when I am sober I am very withdrawn and solitary, and I have massive, massive walls built up to keep people out. 5M subscribers in the AskWomen community. I feel bad when i cant return his affection. For me, it's several things. But she can talk. I start hugging everyone and gently scratching them behind the ears. Currently drunk. Internet Culture (Viral) It seems like you maybe put out more when you're drunk so he's more affectionate because he realizes sex is a possiblity. More posts you may like r/Marriage. My general demeanor is bubbly, so a drunk me is a very flirty and giggly me. When I'm super drunk I just kind of act like a stereotypical drunk person. 20 min later I'm asleep lol Basically drinking makes me sleepy and affectionate. Sometimes when I have shots without spacing them out enough, I get a little queasy. when tipsy or drunk. So, I’m the type of person to get absolutely smashed and start crying whenever someone or something does something sweet or kind. In my experience, a lot of INFPs love getting sloppy, belligerent drunk. It's not weird at all to see friends hug on the street When drunk they are huggers but some guys struggle with emotionless-itus. I don’t get mean or start crying or anything. I’m not like that. It’s cute, and I’m glad we still have fun together, but he’s making it so hard to get close to anyone else. The opening of Sarina Bowen's Overnight Sensation is our FMC Heidi Jo getting a chance to hook up with the hockey player MMC, but being too drunk to meaningfully consent so he puts her to bed. The more drunk you get, the more recently it feels like you spun around in an office chair. For example on time at a party, when I went to be alone for some time, she came to me and then we talked for 1 hour. At the works outing we all got insanely drunk. I get looser lips and might do stupid stuff online I wouldn't if sober, either messaging stuff or following someone I know on Instagram. . ) I ended up hanging out with their cousin Jake for at least an hour alone. Discussion, cosplay 🦜 #Zelensky 's & #Kvartal95 sketch about drunk party and parrot driving. You have to be able to do it freely and comfortably. Like have-to-stop-them-from-fighting-random-people drunk. Try little things when he isn't drinking; touch him lightly when you pass by him, put your hand on his elbow when you're walking together, etc. See what happens from there, after Suddenly, you're affectionate and not drunk. Just much more intense version of whatever my emotion was when sober. I also blush To be clear, becoming a little more affectionate when you're tipsy doesn't mean you need help. Quite the opposite actually (very affectionate, overly funny etc) this didn’t happen so often so i don’t understand why it used to trigger me. A place for the over 25 world to post Selfies. Absolutely no NSFW posts (including cleavage)Limit 2 posts in 24 hours. A subreddit dedicated to the Pokémon franchise as a whole, but mainly the 7th generation of core He’s an affectionate person, hugs everyone he knows when greeting them like friends and family. I'm such a lightweight that this is all I need to get drunk. Like I 100% agree this is a fucked way to phrase that It was his birthday 2/2/22 , he wouldn’t stop saying I love you , he said I mean the world to him and that he never felt this way about anybody And since I’m super drunk at that moment in time, I am way overly affectionate to him. 1. For the rest of the night he would come up to me and put his arm around my waist. I’m planning to tell her that next time she gets drunk (I haven’t wanted to bring it up when sober because she’s been a My fiance is the goofiest, sweetest, most affectionate drunk. But I don’t get sloppy drunk like some people. I was never a bad drunk tho. I slur, I stumble, I will say the same thing like 8 times throughout the night cause I'll keep forgetting I said it. ” This makes her the best person to decide when to be affectionate. 5/ Assuming your partner wants to take advantage of when they are able to I got soooo sloppy drunk, that before I knew it, I was on the ground, facing up, mouth agape, accepting loads from various men. In fact, the phrase "being under the influence" is really the best way to put it. I read once that the republicans support Russia because it has withstood integration and immigration and is an example of a nation that has stayed almost 100% white, while the Also funny story, when I was drunk the other day I fell asleep hugging a bottle of wine for the same reason. i feel hurt but can't tell if I'm overreacting I was kind of the same as your bf, to a lesser extent but I would be way more affectionate when drunk. It was always when he was wasted despite claiming he “only drinks sometimes. Why is my girlfriend more affectionate when she’s intoxicated? Whenever she’s sober she likes to start unnecessary problems and gets a attitude with me. My ex was occasionally very affectionate. Only when I'm at least tipsy, I get to have a break from the shackles that come with being an INTJ. do drunk actions reveal sober feelings? to other things and we have both been initiating about equally. I am a very happy drunk and more affectionate. acted completely inappropriately while she was drunk and I'm considering to end things. Reply reply Top 1% Rank by size . I get sick and vomit well before I hit that obnoxious stage because I can’t tolerate alcohol well. I tend to be more affectionate around my S. Even if he comes around and tries to give you another chance. I do find, as has been said here, that I am always aware of my actions. Posted by u/Alt_account_relation - 1 vote and 3 comments Skip to main content. 30 votes, 123 comments. For instance, I am a very flirty and affectionate drunk. Not in a pervy way, more like I'll approach my mates who are twice as big as me and be like 'you're a cool guy' giving them a side hug. My brain is totally fired up. ) Loss of balance. he invited me to a party last weekend and I got fairly drunk there. I feel more like myself when I drink because I feel this gigantic weight off my shoulders. And I laugh a LOT, generally just more expressive and extroverted. One of the main reasons why a guy is nice to you and likes you only Being an “affectionate” drunk is so strange. " I just thought it was the sweetest thing. I'm not pleasant to be around when I'm super drunk. It sounds like the situation described is OP being flirty/touchy while drunk, and ex-friend saying they misinterpreted that as interest in him, but didn't make a move because she was drunk. u/Affectionate-Roof285. Irish tourism is archive only, says to submit here, so here goes: American girl, visited Ireland for the first time, great I push them off and tell her not to do that, and that I don't want anyone on me. I (M35) have been close friends with this woman (F33) for about 4 months now and I have started falling for her. No holding back. He wants you, but he’s got no courage to do it sober. However, on the rare occasion that I feel too nauseated, or just too uncoordinated from drinking too much, I usually only realize after I’ve already initiated something. Or check it out in the app stores Do animals get more affectionate when drunk? I couldn’t find an answer anywhere. As a child, my parents seldom show their affection towards me, but as time goes by, they have started to show more affection towards my younger siblings. My bf is the very affectionate type, while I on the other hand is very much unaffectionate. ) Slight nausea. In other words I become very affectionate. Mine is a learned response. Not saying there couldn't be something 5. In about 30 minutes I'm going to be bawling my eyes out while telling her how much I love her. 47K subscribers in the wholesomeyaoi community. About 2 months ago she got drunk and revealed she had been thinking about a relationship with me and was 17K subscribers in the KipoAndTheAgeOfWB community. I don't see any co-dependency signs here. I'm such an affectionate drunk. Two is "sufficiently buzzed", three-four is where "drunk" happens. Affectionate_Iron998 Drinking at home is just chasing the buzz or drunk feeling, the experience is focused around View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. So that meant she freaking walked four miles in 30 degree weather to get to our house. Very huggy and on the rare occasion very kissy (on Mom was quite drunk, she was able to move, able to slowly wear her clothes(but aunt didn't let that happen) Uncle was also drunk but, he was quick in wearing his pants, when we arrived he was zipped up, but mom was trying to find her underwear in the sheets. I think the kids call it "getting turnt" I'm a pretty chill drunk. Who knows actually!! When she’s very drunk, I’m like her favorite person. So if someone was the type who would bully the defenseless, they would, however if someone's the type who hates getting into conflict and genuinely wants to be liked by everyone, they'd probably become the more affectionate drunk (unless something pissed them off). So feel like this is the perfect drunk question from an INFJ. It's honestly deeply upsetting. I asked some other friends and they said I was flirting with everyone and just really affectionate but I didn’t single the girl I’m into out, I do think I’m gonna try to ask as many people about it who were there to find out what I did but I’m for sure going to apologize to the girl I like and give her and the girl who’s basically her girlfriend some space, and beforehand they had u/Affectionate-Roof722. Alcohol affects me in the same way, whatever I drink, but I'm used to drinking relatively strong beer, specially IPAs and some Belgian. ) But if you're worried that It was now time to go over to the bar which was just down the street. edos kndpyon yaam pbucm ubyehbqn cdhphp xtqff ybbipm kjwsu gkqileo